In the livestream, he said that he wasn't having an affair-- he did not want a relationship, he wanted sex.
This is why we all need to be cautious when he says something out loud because it’s more often than not a misdirection or outright lie.
Evidence exists in the letters to Dijana and in the WhatsApp screenshots that he was looking for relationships.
- In Austin where he first was caught, he refers to meeting women (online dating) and feeling “butterflies” - only to be rejected for sex because he was an “overweight blob” (fact check - 100% true).
- He also refers to his trip to Thailand in the second letter to Dijana as some kind of soul searching expedition to see if younger women were interested in him.
- Also in the second letter when he attenpted to negotiate his way out of a divorce, he promises to “come off all dating apps” and limit himself to sex workers. So he knew there was a difference between the two and it is right there in his own words.
- He said he “dated a sex worker”, thus nullifying any claim to only be after the sex. She was a sex worker! But he vehemently denies that he paid for sex in Thailand, only letting it slip once that he actually did in the FB post.
- First letter to Dijana he refers to her almost catching him on a dating site, and mentions “Zrinka from Rijeka”. Zrinka was someone he was online dating and a big reason why Dijana backed out of the open marriage was that he refused to limit his dates with her to Rijeka.
If these were only affairs borne out of lust, then why gush about the wonderful feeling that meeting younger women who seemed to be interested? Truth of the matter is he was on dating apps all along - from the time he got caught in England right up to Thailand. He desired a mistress he could run off to see on the side.